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Tagged DopeCutz, Harrisstores, KingVI, PabloTheWave, PharaohThe47

HOT; THE STREET FREE HAIRCUT SHOW HAPPENING LIVE IN JOS CITY

OTN in collaboration with Dope Cutz Presents The Street Hair Cut Show with Pharaoh The 47 @pharaoh_the _47, Pablo The Wave @pablo_thewave […]

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Tagged GUINNESS WORLD RECORD, HILDA BASI, NIGERIA

4 Amazing Facts You Need To Know About The Phenomenal Chef Hilda Basi

Hilda was on a mission which entailed her to cook multiple dishes for an expected period of time in order to get […]

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Tagged African, Billionaire, Dangote

Dangote, Others Brace Up as New Dollar Billionaires Emerge in Africa in 2023

There are new and emerging dollar billionaires in Africa with interests in various sectors These billionaires have shored up Africa’s image on […]

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Tagged Harrisstores, lifestyle, Relationship tips

11 Red Flags You’re Dealing With A Toxic Person

All human relationships can be complicated at times. And the reality is that no one is perfect. That means most of us […]

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Tagged Classy, lifestyle

10 Essential Ingredients Of a Classy Person

Let’s be blunt about it…some people simply ooze class. We’ve all met them. Their style, manners, and how they carry themselves…all speak […]

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Tagged Habits, Inteligence, lifestyle

10 things intelligent people never do (so you shouldn’t either)

Intelligence is not just about being smart, but also about making wise decisions and avoiding behaviors that hold you back. Here are […]

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Tagged lifestyle, Likeability

7 Unsexy Habits That Wreck Your Likeability

7 Unsexy Habits That Wreck Your Likeability
1. Breaking miniature commitment
2. Not being able to take a joke
3. Extravagant fault-finding
4. Exceeding your power
5. Offering guidance that wasn’t requested
6. Whipping out your phone constantly
7. Narrating need to feel superior

At the point when individuals let you know that you shouldn’t mind peoples thought process about of you, they’re off-base. The intricacy of social elements can’t be settled with such distorted counsel.

This is my thought process.

You shouldn't give an excess of consideration to what an individual or individuals consider a solitary choice or activity of yours.

Nonetheless, you ought to think often about the general assessment individuals have of you. Since, in such a case that everybody believes you're a butt hole, you most probably are.

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Here are unsexy propensities that wreck your likeability

1. Breaking miniature commitment

In everyday life, we make a great deal of micro promises to one another.

"I'll return your vehicle by 7 PM."
"I'll meet you at the café around early afternoon."

Furthermore, individuals frequently break them feeling that it’s harmless. They’ll return stuff later than guaranteed. They’re late.

Yet, it’s everything except harmless. These split miniature commitments develop — and in total, individuals regard you less on the grounds that you don’t stay faithful to your promises. What’s more, they grow an inner mind resentment against you since breaking promises feels deceitful to them.

A basic rule to observe is — don’t make guarantees you can’t keep. Also, for reasons unknown, in the event that you can’t keep the commitment you made, inform and apologize.

2. Not being able to take a joke

Post my breakup, two of my companions frequently joked about how I’m not getting any activity. Furthermore, I kidded back, “No doubt, I think my virginity is recovering.” And we’d all enjoy a hearty chuckle.

Obviously, I had the option to take the joke since I realize that these individuals really focused on me — and they kidded on the grounds that that is our thing.

Then again, individuals are frequently not ready to take a joke without regard to them. They have thin skin. Also, they get irritated effectively at whatever point somebody makes even gentle fun of them. This makes such individuals less likeable — as it shows that they’re less confident.

The arrangement is to foster a thicker skin and figure out how to guide into the pallet. At the point when somebody ridicules you, figure out how to go along with them and giggle at yourself. This shows individuals you’re secure — and makes you more likeable.

3. Extravagant fault-finding

We’ve all met that person. The one who claims that everyone’s stupid. They’re like Sherlock when it comes to finding people’s flaws. And often, these people criticize others for having a flaw that they possess as well! It’s ironic.

I think it happens because of our egos. When we criticize others on something, we subconsciously tell ourselves, “I’m better than him in this area. I do not have this flaw” even if that’s false. That’s why highly insecure people criticize everyone over everything. They think everyone else is flawed.

And the truth is — we all have a tendency to find flaws in others. I’ve learned a good way to counter this. First, I try not to point out people’s flaws. But let’s be honest, we all end up finding flaws no matter how hard we try not to. So, whenever I do point out someone’s flaw, I try to follow it up with the statement, “But that’s okay. We’re all very young right now. I shouldn’t expect people to be perfect.”

This reinforces in my mind that everyone has flaws — and they don’t need to be pointed out over and over again. This has rewired my mind to be less judgemental, and I point out people’s flaws less than ever.

4. Exceeding your power

We as a whole are essential for orders. For example, I’m an intern at a hospital. So I work under junior and senior colleagues, assistant professors, associate professors, and the HOD. So, all of these are in a position of power over me.

What’s more, they can practice that capacity somewhat. They can request that I take care of duties in the hospital. Be that as it may, on occasion, they request that I complete their own errands. What’s more, assuming they asked it act of goodwill some help — now and again — that’d be OK. However, they violate their power by requesting that I in all actuality do stuff that isn’t an aspect of my responsibilities depiction, and they do it frequently, realizing beyond any doubt, that it’s challenging for me to say no.

It’s not pleasant. I could do without it when it works out.. I don’t like them when it happens.

If you’re in a position of power over someone, don’t overstep it. People will hate you for it..

5. Offering guidance that wasn’t requested

Offering guidance that wasn’t requested

It is interesting to Offer guidance.
If someone asks for it, then you’re good to go. However, when unasked, more often than not, advice is not taken in good faith for two reasons::

It's taken as criticism regardless of whether your aim was to help.
Any advice is an intermediary proclamation for, "I know better" and the individual you're offering guidance to doesn't have any desire to recognize or acknowledge that you know better.

That is the reason my standard is to not offer advice except if the individual requests it. Only once in a blue moon — when I realize that the individual will take my recommendation sincerely — do I offer unasked advice.

6. Whipping out your phone constantly

At the point when they’re out meeting a friend, or a couple of friends, individuals frequently whip out their telephones. They don’t understand that this is really irritating to the individual before them.

At the point when you whip out your telephone for some other explanation with the exception of a certified need to, you subliminally convey, “My telephone is more fascinating than you.” And that stings.

Thus, don’t keep your phone on the table — neither face up nor face down. Keep it in your pocket. Concentrate entirely on the individual before you.

7. Narrating need to feel superior

We are in general narrators. Furthermore, we as a whole have a competitive nature.

That is the reason, when somebody tells a story, we want to recount a superior story. And it can take truly stupid forms as well. For instance, one might say, “Dude I saw an accident on 4th street. This and this happened.” And the other might say something along the lines of, “Bro! That’s nothing. I saw an even ‘bigger’ accident last week.”

The individual who tells a story has the spotlight. At the point when you recount a better story — you attempt to capture everyone’s attention. You take consideration from them. What’s more, we as a whole like consideration — so nobody enjoys the individual that takes it from us.

Subsequently, on the off chance that you have a superior story, shut up. Save it for quite a while else. Let the individual narrator partake at the center of attention.

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Tagged 2023 ELECTIONS, NIGERIA

Nigeria Decides in Few Days: 5 Fundamental Finds Out About The Elections

From underdog to a main candidate Leader of what is portrayed as the Obidient movement, Peter Gregory Obi is a finance manager and previous legislative leader of Anambra State, in the south-east district of Nigeria.

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January 28, 2023

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Tagged Harrisstores, healthy, lifestyle

HEALTHY EATING

Eating habits refer to the way we consume food and drink, including the types of food we eat, how much we eat, and when we eat. Good eating habits are important for maintaining good health

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HEALTHY LIVING

HEALTH Health refers to the overall well-being of an individual, including physical, mental, and social well-being. It is important to maintain good […]

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